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The Inside Flags

A free guide to reading your own red, yellow and green flags -- the ones that were never really about who you were dating.

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The Inside Flags -- a closed notebook and a house key on a wooden table

This guide will help you:

  • Tell the difference between a real red flag and a habit you can actually fix.
  • Fill in a week's worth of evidence -- not just read another list and forget it by Tuesday.
  • Use the same three-step method behind everything on this site: ask, look, write it down.

Here's the thing: you don't usually miss the flags. You talk yourself out of them.

You feel when something's off -- with a person, with a job, with a version of yourself you keep excusing. Instead of writing it down, you rationalize it, wait, or hope it changes on its own. A feeling doesn't hold up a month later. A line you wrote down does.

The Inside Flags turns the mirror around: not flags in who you're dating, but flags in how you're treating yourself. Twelve pages, three worksheet pages, one week of evidence.

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